I’ve never read anything by Stoya that is not literate, intelligent, well thought-out, well balanced and worth reading; this one in particular for anyone struggling to deal with the diversity of others; I’d also go so far as to call this one “almost work safe”:

Stoya on the Pitfalls of Heteronormativity and Monogamy | VICE United States.

See also her definitely NSFW Tumblr Blog.

Previously.

HT Owen Blacker.